tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24928073.post114414248063223609..comments2009-06-02T16:50:22.742-04:00Comments on The Re-Education of Lakia Holmes: The Trouble With Love Is...Lakiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11580654145630324074noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24928073.post-1145233555716268982006-04-16T20:25:00.000-04:002006-04-16T20:25:00.000-04:00ryan,what a sad story...poor ryan...(quit being a ...ryan,<BR/>what a sad story...<BR/>poor ryan...<BR/>(quit being a sissy)peteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04118724965106211243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24928073.post-1144996824334420602006-04-14T02:40:00.000-04:002006-04-14T02:40:00.000-04:00Ry@n: i recently experienced putting myself out th...Ry@n: i recently experienced putting myself out there, and like i said it sucks when the person doesn't feel the same as you, but the feeling you get when you know you've been honest with yourself first and foremost is perhaps the greatest feeling. after being honest with yourself, then you can be honest with the other person and what happens next is out of your control, but at least they know how you feel. the ball's in their court after that.Lakiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11580654145630324074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24928073.post-1144864455480729502006-04-12T13:54:00.000-04:002006-04-12T13:54:00.000-04:00kia.i've been outta the blog circuit momentarily (...kia.<BR/>i've been outta the blog circuit momentarily (minus the dominion), but i'm back.<BR/><BR/>good stuff. i agree with amy in that i claim no expertise in the laws of love. but i agree with you in that love is a sacrifice, a choice, and pretty rare and until you reach that point you gotta protect your number one.<BR/><BR/>and being there for you is a sign of good character, not always a sign of romantic love. romantic love wants to be with you as much or more as you want to be with it...peteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04118724965106211243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24928073.post-1144811226931608352006-04-11T23:07:00.000-04:002006-04-11T23:07:00.000-04:00amy: good thing i know you, and know that what you...amy: good thing i know you, and know that what you said in that last paragraph isn't true. your methods of reverse psychology are amazing!!<BR/><BR/>jj: thanks so much for your kind words. there is definitely a mix of pleasure and pain i get from writing and after all these years of writing various things for various people and/or situations, i have learned so much about myself. and there's no way i'm holding anything back; as evidenced by this last posting. the bad thing is it seems like people seem to not be able to handle my words. blessing or curse? you decide.Lakiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11580654145630324074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24928073.post-1144733623105020692006-04-11T01:33:00.000-04:002006-04-11T01:33:00.000-04:00Hey baby girl.Your analysis exactly mirrors much o...Hey baby girl.<BR/><BR/>Your analysis exactly mirrors much of what I too have experienced and thought about the subject. As many lessons as I've learned the hard way, I tend to give great advice to others and not follow it myself. I wonder at times if I'll ever change. I wonder if I should continue to be myself, wear my heart on my sleeve, or do a 180 and shield myself from love forever so I can avoid the pain of losing it. I wonder if I'll ever find that happy medium, or if anyone does?<BR/><BR/>Keep writing. I'm telling you the truth; you are a writer. And one can't be taught to write. It's innate, and it's an ability that's cultivated through years of experiencing both beauty and pain. You've harnessed your ability well; but don't ever rein it in and hold things back.<BR/><BR/>Un besito,<BR/><BR/>JJJJenni Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09724144725957425132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24928073.post-1144502978431023422006-04-08T09:29:00.000-04:002006-04-08T09:29:00.000-04:00okay kia,i'm replying to this not because i have a...okay kia,<BR/>i'm replying to this not because i have anything worth saying here, but because i know it's driving you nuts to pour your heart out all over your blog and then check back to see "0 comments."<BR/><BR/>anyway, you rock. what i'll say next is said out of love and because i care about you. this mysterious third possibility is The Guy. he's funny and solid and always there for you. you should totally go for him, even if it just breaks your heart. i hope that helps.amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14225539177715566404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24928073.post-1144502865686006052006-04-08T09:27:00.000-04:002006-04-08T09:27:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14225539177715566404noreply@blogger.com